Timeline

1995 - 2008
Nivedhan is consistently physically abused by Bishop Singh

Nivedhan is consistently physically abused by Bishop Singh while Bishop Singh is Associate Priest at St. Peter's Episcopal Church in Morristown, NJ from 1995-2001, and subsequently Rector at St. Alban's Episcopal Church in Oakland, NJ, from 2001-2008. Predatory behavior is in violation of TEC's General Convention Resolution 2018-D091.

Nivedhan is consistently physically abused by Bishop Singh

Nivedhan Singh's account of his abuse

"My father would administer an Adi on me regularly. Adi is the Tamil word for ‘beating.’ I received an Adi as punitive physical abuse. When my father had been drinking or was hungover, this would escalate to prolonged, hard hits across my thighs, arms, legs, and face. Reasons for the physical abuse included:

  • being late for school
  • getting something wrong on homework
  • getting bad grades
  • misbehaving in church
  • misbehaving in front of guests
  • saying a bad word
  • speaking ill of somone else
  • asking for an expensive toy at the store
"The threatening question, Adi ventuma?! was yelled at me frequently. The English translation is, "Do you want a beating?!" This was more than spanking. I remember the intensity of my sobbing during the abuse. I found it hard to breathe, and remember gasping for air while being struck. After the abuse, I would be sent to my room where I would cry myself to sleep. Sometimes I would urinate on my own carpet in silent protest.

"My father grew up in a physically abusive household. I heard stories of how my grandfather would throw things at my grandmother, bruising her. My father, at the age of 11, would get between the two of them to stop the fighting. Instead of breaking the cycle of abuse, my father went on to abuse his own children. My father hit me often as a form of punishment growing up. He threw things at us. I had cell phones smashed in front of me, glass chess boards shattered, and video game systems ripped apart. Most of the physical violence was directed toward me punitively. I remember one day before school when he kicked me while I was on the ground screaming in pain because he was holding my crying baby brother at the time; so he could not use his hands. I was screamed at often. My mother was yelled at often. When my dad tried to spank my baby brother for the first time, I got between them and said, 'No, not him.' I would not see the cycle of abuse continue. When I asked my father (as an adult) why he used physical abuse as a form of punishment, his explanation was that I was a 'difficult kid'.

"While my father was an Associate Priest at St. Peters Episcopal Church in Morristown, NJ, I tied a lamp cord around my neck and pulled it as hard as I could in a suicidal attempt to escape the beatings. I was 10 years old at the time. Nighttime bedwetting became an uncontrollable problem for me and would continue until I was around 13 years old, when I was able to live away from the abuse at boarding school. I have teachers and friends who can verify I wore diapers at night until 7th grade. I have been in trauma recovery therapy, including EMDR sessions about the physical abuse since 2018, and I can provide receipts from my health insurance to verify this."

Nivedhan Singh

Mar. 16 2020
Bp Singh says, "We might as well get a formal divorce." to Roja Singh

Bp Singh suggests seperation, ends marriage therapy sessions, and implies he will kill himself drinking. He will go on to publicly lie about who initiated the seperation on Feb. 24, 2021. Alcoholism/substance abuse is in violation of TEC's General Convention Resolutions 1985-A083, 2015-D014, 2015-A158, and A158-GC2015.

Bishop Singh says, "We might as well get a formal divorce." to Roja Singh

Bishop Singh suggests seperation, ends marriage therapy sessions, and implies he will kill himself drinking. He will go on to publicly lie about who initiated the seperation on February 24, 2021. Alcoholism/substance abuse is in violation of TEC's General Convention Resolutions 1985-A083, 2015-D014, 2015-A158, and A158-GC2015.

I suggested separation yesterday...I have sacrificed a lot to preserve our marriage including my relationship with my mother and my brother who is a simpleton...I am happy she is an independent and strong woman. But strength should never be used to humiliate and dominate. Therefore, I am bowing out of couples therapy. I will continue with my personal therapy to get a semblance of dignity back and work out my drinking issues. I don't want to kill myself drinking by remaining in this marriage. Strangely, I feel peaceful and relieved after a long time. Bishop Singh

March 16th, 2020 email from Bishop Singh

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June 7th 2020
Bp Singh is racist toward Roja (Caste), admits to not seeking out help for his alchohol addiction

Bp Singh emails Roja, uses discriminatory Caste language, blames her for his drinking, admits he has not sought out help for his alcoholism, implies divorce. Caste discrimination is in violation of TEC's General Convention Resolution 2018-A222.

Bishop Singh is racist toward Roja (Caste), admits to not seeking out help for his alchohol addiction

Bishop Singh emails Roja, uses discriminatory Caste language, blames her for his drinking, admits he has not sought out help for his alcoholism, implies divorce. The Caste system is an an ancient Indian system of social hierarchy. Caste discrimination is in violation of The Episcopal Church's General Convention Resolution 2018-A222.

If this is empowerment, more power to you and I can leave you three in peace...Your psychological fragility was a huge part of why I have done this work of absorbing your anxieties by just biting my tongue. And my subsequent drinking...I have been drinking to absorb some of the pain. I know I have had a problem...That was the worst wound in my life that in my desire to overcome caste and other differences I had overcompensated and imagined a lie that you actually cared for me...Since none of you seem happy and I am, as each of you has alleged, a cause of most of your problems, it may be time for some real change. Bishop Singh

June 7th, 2020 email from Bishop Singh

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Feb. 24th 2021
Bp Singh lies about marital separation to Dioc. of Rochester

Bp Singh sends an email to the Episcopal Diocese of Rochester with a false, image-managing narrative about his divorce, claiming that it was amicable & not due to abuse. The claim that the family requests “privacy” results in the isolation of Roja & their sons from church community. "Conduct involving dishonesty, fraud, deceit or misrepresentation" is a violation of TEC's Canon 4: Of Standards of Conduct, Sec. 1.h.6:

Bishop Singh lies about separation to his diocese, Episcopal Diocese of Rochester in Feb 24, 2021 mailing.

Bishop Singh writes misdirecting mailing to entire Episcopal Diocese of Rochester implying that Roja left him, and to respect the family's privacy. Cameron Miller follows up reiterating to respect family's privacy. Roja and sons never asked for privacy. This leads to the effective excommunication of Roja, Eklan, and Nivedhan from The Episcopal Church. "Conduct involving dishonesty, fraud, deceit or misrepresentation" is a violation of TEC's Canon 4: Of Standards of Conduct, Sec. 1.h.6.

After some intentional therapy and marriage counseling, Roja named the truth that our marriage is over. Bishop Singh
Our support is best offered by giving them appropriate space for their transistions. Cameron Miller

February 24th, 2021 email from Bishop Singh and Rev. Cameron Miller

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Feb. 8th 2022
Bp Singh made Provisional Bp of East, West Michigan

Bp Prince Singh is appointed as Provisional bishop for two dioceses: Eastern, Western Michigan. His predecessor was forced to resign after an extramarital affair. TEC’s Office of Pastoral Development, headed by Bp Todd Ousley, was heavily criticized for its response to this scandal.

Bishop Prince Singh made Provisional Bishop of Eastern and Western Michigan.

Bishop Prince Singh is appointed as Provisional Bishop for two dioceses: Eastern and Western Michigan. His predecessor was forced to resign after an extramarital affair. The Episcopal Church’s Office of Pastoral Development, headed by Bishop Todd Ousley, was heavily criticized for its response to this scandal.

June 9th 2022
Bp Singh and Roja Singh's divorce is completed

Bp Singh and Roja's divorce is finalized. Bp Singh would go on to lie about when the divorce happened on June 16th, 2023. "Conduct involving dishonesty, fraud, deceit or misrepresentation" and "any conduct Unbecoming a Member of the Clergy" is a violation of TEC's Of Standards of Conduct, Sec. 1.h.6 & 9

Bishop Singh and Roja Singh's divorce is completed

Bp Singh and Roja's divorce is finalized. Bp Singh would go on to lie about when the divorce happened on Junne 16th, 2023. "Conduct involving dishonesty, fraud, deceit or misrepresentation" and "any conduct Unbecoming a Member of the Clergy" is a violation of TEC's Of Standards of Conduct, Sec. 1.h.6 & 9

June 9th, 2022 - divorce finalized

June 9th, 2022 - divorce finalized

April 22nd, 2022 - divorce filed

April 22nd, 2022 - divorce filed
Oct. 18th 2022
Bp Singh claims in a public FB post that the divorce was "amicable."

Bp Singh publicly states that the divorce was amicable. This post was made on the wedding anniversary of Bp Singh and Roja. "Conduct involving dishonesty, fraud, deceit or misrepresentation" and "any conduct Unbecoming a Member of the Clergy" is a violation of TEC's Of Standards of Conduct, Sec. 1.h.6 & 9.

Bishop Singh posts to Facebook that the divorce was amicable (on wedding anniversary with Roja)

Bishop Singh publicly states that the divorce was amicable. This post was made on the wedding anniversary of Bishop Singh and Roja Singh. "Conduct involving dishonesty, fraud, deceit or misrepresentation" and "any conduct Unbecoming a Member of the Clergy" is a violation of TEC's Of Standards of Conduct, Sec. 1.h.6 & 9.

Friends, Roja and I are amicably divorced--sad, but we have moved on! I appreciate your prayers! Thank you for sharing the pain, disappointment, and sadness of this transition. We had many years of joy and accomplished much good together. I am grateful! Bishop Singh

October 18th, 2022 Facebook post by Bishop Singh

October 18th, 2022 Facebook Post
Dec. 1st 2022
Bp Singh gets engaged 6 months after official divorce

Bp Singh announces engagement to close friends from Seminary, 6 months after his official divorce. Bp Singh would go on to say in a video on Jun 16th, 2023 that the relationship started 2.5 years after his official divorce.

Bp Singh gets engaged 6 months after official divorce

Bishop Singh announces engagement to close friends from Seminary, 6 months after his official divorce, and excludes his sons and Roja from the message. Bp Singh would go on to say in a video on Jun 16th, 2023 that the relationship started 2.5 years after his official divorce.

December 1st, 2022 email from Bishop Singh

December 1st, 2022 email from Bishop Singh
Dec. 17th 2022
Roja Singh writes email to PB Curry sharing heartbreak about the church's treatment of her family

Roja states that she and her sons feel shunned by the lack of communication from PB Curry after the separation.

Roja Singh writes email to Presiding Bishop Curry sharing heartbreak about the church's treatment of her family

Roja adresses Feb 24 2021 Episcopal Diocese of Rochester mailing, Presiding Bishop Curry says he thought Roja did not want to hear from him.

Roja's letter to Presiding Bishop Curry

Roja's letter to Presiding Bishop Curry

Roja's email to Presiding Bishop Curry

Roja's email to Presiding Bishop Curry
Dec. 19th 2022
PB Curry responds to Roja Singh's email

PB Curry agrees to Zoom with Roja and provide pastoral care after reading her attached letter. Claims he thought she did not want to hear from him.

Presiding Bishop Curry agrees to Zoom with Roja after reading her letter/email

Presiding Bishop Curry responds on Dec 19th, 2022 and states that he thought Roja did not want to hear from him - something Roja never said. Presiding Bishop Curry agrees to Zoom with Roja and provide pastoral care after reading her email and attached letter.

Roja's email exchange with Presiding Bishop Curry

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Dec. 29th 2022
Nivedhan discloses Bp Singh's history of abuse to PB Curry. PB Curry does not launch Title IV investigation

Nivedhan writes a letter that discloses his father's domestic abuse and alcoholism to PB Michael Curry. According to Title IV, Canon 6, Section 3, "Any person other than the Intake Officer who receives information regarding an Offense shall promptly forward the information to the Intake Officer." Failing to do so is a violation of Title IV, Canon 4, Section 1, Subsection f.

Nivedhan discloses Bp Singh's history of abuse to PB Curry. PB Curry does not launch Title IV investigation

Nivedhan writes a letter that discloses his father's domestic abuse and alcoholism to Presiding Bishop Michael Curry. He was scared for his father and unsure about how to proceed. Nivedhan Singh trusted that perhaps Michael Curry would know what to do in terms of holding Bishop Singh accountable, and providing a path toward healing and fixing things with his dad. Nivedhan Singh was not made aware of Title IV at the time of his disclosure, nor was it something ever explained to Bishop Singh's family. According to Title IV, Canon 6, Section 3, "Any person other than the Intake Officer who receives information regarding an Offense shall promptly forward the information to the Intake Officer." Failing to do so is a violation of Title IV, Canon 4, Section 1, Subsection f, "In exercising his or her ministry, a Member of the Clergy shall...report to the Intake Officer all matters which may constitute an Offense".

Nivedhan's letter to Presiding Bishop Curry

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Nivedhan's email to Presiding Bishop Curry

Nivedhan's email to Presiding Bishop Curry
Dec. 29th 2022
Eklan discloses Bp Singh's history of abuse to PB Curry. PB Curry does not launch Title IV investigation

Eklan writes a letter that discloses his father's emotional abuse and alcoholism and emails it to PB Curry. According to Title IV, Canon 6, Section 3, "Any person other than the Intake Officer who receives information regarding an Offense shall promptly forward the information to the Intake Officer." Failing to do so is a violation of Title IV, Canon 4, Section 1, Subsection f.

Eklan discloses Bp Singh's history of abuse to PB Curry. PB Curry does not launch Title IV investigation

Eklan Singh writes a letter that discloses his father's emotional abuse, and alcoholism and emails it to Presiding Bishop Curry. Eklan was not made aware of Title IV at the time of his disclosure, nor was it something ever explained to Bishop Singh's family. According to Title IV, Canon 6, Section 3, "Any person other than the Intake Officer who receives information regarding an Offense shall promptly forward the information to the Intake Officer." Failing to do so is a violation of Title IV, Canon 4, Section 1, Subsection f, "In exercising his or her ministry, a Member of the Clergy shall...report to the Intake Officer all matters which may constitute an Offense".

Eklan's letter to Presiding Bishop Curry

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Eklan's email to Presiding Bishop Curry

Eklan's email to Presiding Bishop Curry
Dec. 30th 2022
Bp Singh calls Nivedhan after abuse disclosure

Bp Singh states that he will have to resign due to the allegations. He characterizes the abuse as “spanking" & voices dismay that apologizing is not treated as sufficient to repair the relationship. Predatory behavior is in violation of TEC's General Convention Resolution 2018-D091.

Bishop Singh calls Nivedhan after abuse disclosure

Bishop Singh states that he will have to resign due to the allegations. He characterizes the abuse as “spanking" & voices dismay that apologizing is not treated as sufficient to repair the relationship. Predatory behavior is in violation of TEC's General Convention Resolution 2018-D091.

December 30th, 2022 phone call

Nivedhan Singh: I just think that I never received an explicit apology for the physical abuse and- Bishop Singh: I've told you so many times Nivedhan, I am so sorry that I did that. I didn't know better. Nivedhan Singh: Well, and to say that our relationship had nothing to do with the divorce at all. It was a hard situation to grow up in, dad. And I am hurt, Eklan is hurt. And I understand loneliness or whatever, but I think that the priority should have been rebuilding your relationship with us before going and pursuing something like this. Bishop Singh: [inaudible 00:09:19] I have tried to rebuild my relationship with you. I've made two trips to your house.

December 30th, 2022 phone call transcript

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Dec. 31st 2022
David Singh, compromised pastor, claims to be appointed by PB Curry to counsel Bp Singh. PB Curry does not launch Title IV investigation.

David Singh, an evangelical pastor & lifelong friend of Bp Singh, claims to have been appointed to provide counseling to Bp Singh by PB Curry. David Singh also offers to “listen” to Nivedhan & Eklan. Bp Singh later treats this as family therapy. David Singh is not a licensed therapist. According to Title IV, Canon 6, Section 3, "Any person other than the Intake Officer who receives information regarding an Offense shall promptly forward the information to the Intake Officer." Failing to do so is a violation of Title IV, Canon 4, Section 1, Subsection f.

David Singh, compromised pastor, claims to be appointed by Presiding Bishop Curry to counsel Bishop Singh. PB Curry does not launch Title IV investigation.

David Singh, an evangelical pastor & lifelong friend of Bishop Singh, claims to have been appointed to provide counseling to Bishop Singh by Presiding Bishop Curry. David Singh also offers to “listen” to Nivedhan & Eklan. Bishop Singh later treats this as family therapy. David Singh is not a licensed therapist. According to Title IV, Canon 6, Section 3, "Any person other than the Intake Officer who receives information regarding an Offense shall promptly forward the information to the Intake Officer." Failing to do so is a violation of Title IV, Canon 4, Section 1, Subsection f, "In exercising his or her ministry, a Member of the Clergy shall...report to the Intake Officer all matters which may constitute an Offense".

The Presiding Bishop has appointed me to provide the necessary counseling for your father. David Singh

David Singh's letter to Nivedhan and Eklan Singh

David Singh's letter to Nivedhan and Eklan

December 31st, 2022 email to Nivedhan and Eklan Singh

December 31st, 2022 email to Nivedhan and Eklan
Jan. 11th 2023
PB Curry responds to Nivedhan's abuse disclosure about Bp Singh

PB Curry does not mention Title IV to the family. He does not inform the family that these allegations, if true, constitute Title IV offenses. He does not submit a report to an Intake Officer. According to Title IV, Canon 6, Section 3, "Any person other than the Intake Officer who receives information regarding an Offense shall promptly forward the information to the Intake Officer." Failing to do so is a violation of Title IV, Canon 4, Section 1, Subsection f.

Presiding Bishop Curry responds to Nivedhan's abuse disclosure about Bishop Singh

Presiding Bishop Curry does not mention Title IV to the family. He does not inform the family that these allegations, if true, constitute Title IV offenses. He does not submit a report to an Intake Officer. According to Title IV, Canon 6, Section 3, "Any person other than the Intake Officer who receives information regarding an Offense shall promptly forward the information to the Intake Officer." Failing to do so is a violation of Title IV, Canon 4, Section 1, Subsection f, "In exercising his or her ministry, a Member of the Clergy shall...report to the Intake Officer all matters which may constitute an Offense".

While I don’t have a quick fix I do want to be of appropriate help and support to you. I don’t know what that might look like, but I will be thinking a bit more about that. I am going to talk with Bishop Todd Ousley who helps me to support and assist bishops and their families. Presiding Bishop Curry

Presiding Bishop Curry's email to Nivedhan and Eklan Singh

Presiding Bishop Curry's email to Nivedhan and Eklan
Feb. 22nd 2023
Roja has Zoom Meeting With PB Curry

Roja addresses lack of institutional support for families of Bishops with PB Curry. Domestic abuse is mentioned by both. Curry does not mention Title IV. According to Title IV, Canon 6, Section 3, "Any person other than the Intake Officer who receives information regarding an Offense shall promptly forward the information to the Intake Officer." Failing to do so is a violation of Title IV, Canon 4, Section 1, Subsection f.

Roja has Zoom Meeting With Presiding Bishop Curry

Roja addresses lack of institutional support for families of Bishops with Presiding Bishop Curry. Domestic abuse is mentioned by both. Presiding Bishop Curry does not mention Title IV. According to Title IV, Canon 6, Section 3, "Any person other than the Intake Officer who receives information regarding an Offense shall promptly forward the information to the Intake Officer." Failing to do so is a violation of Title IV, Canon 4, Section 1, Subsection f, "In exercising his or her ministry, a Member of the Clergy shall...report to the Intake Officer all matters which may constitute an Offense".

February 22nd, 2023 Zoom Meeting audio

February 22nd, 2023 Zoom call transcript

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February 22nd, 2023 Zoom invite

February 22nd, 2023 Zoom invite
Feb. 22nd 2023
Nivedhan expresses concerns about David Singh's qualifications

Nivedhan expresses concerns about David Singh's qualifications on the phone with Bp Singh, as David Singh is not a licensed therapist. Nivedhan states that he would feel better with an unbiased 3rd party, but Bp Singh pushes back, saying that he is having trouble finding someone who will counsel across state lines/virtually.

Feb. 23rd 2023
Todd Ousley, Intake Officer for Title IV does not follow up with Roja or sons. Todd Ousley does not launch Title IV investigation

PB Curry says Todd Ousley will be in touch about pastoral care options for Roja and sons. Bp Singh reaches out to Nivedhan about joining a counseling session with David Singh. Todd Ousley never follows up, and does not launch a Title IV investigation. According to Title IV, Canon 6, Section 3, "Any person other than the Intake Officer who receives information regarding an Offense shall promptly forward the information to the Intake Officer." Failing to do so is a violation of Title IV, Canon 4, Section 1, Subsection f.

Todd Ousley, Intake Officer for Title IV does not follow up with Roja or sons. Todd Ousley does not launch Title IV investigation

Presiding Bishop Curry says Todd Ousley will follow up directly with pastoral care. He uses the phrase, "Family therapy" in his note to Roja. Family therapy implies an unbiased, 3rd party. Counseling is something within the scope of a pastor to provide, with the proper licensure. While David Singh may be a counselor, his close history with Bishop Singh makes this unethical. Nivedhan raised all of these concerns to Bishop Singh on a phone call on February 22nd, 2023 - So, we cannot say for certain what Presiding Bishop Curry knew or did not know about David Singh's qualifications/involvement. What we do know is that Presiding Bishop Curry and Todd Ousley did not follow up with Roja or her sons, or launch a Title IV investigation into their claims. This left them vulnerable to Bishop Singh's influence and undue control over the situation. According to Title IV, Canon 6, Section 3, "Any person other than the Intake Officer who receives information regarding an Offense shall promptly forward the information to the Intake Officer." Failing to do so is a violation of Title IV, Canon 4, Section 1, Subsection f, "In exercising his or her ministry, a Member of the Clergy shall...report to the Intake Officer all matters which may constitute an Offense".

Presiding Bishop's February 23rd, 2023 email to Roja Singh

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Mar. 2nd 2023
Nivedhan joins therapy session organized by David Singh, compromised pastor, and Bp Singh, Nivedhan's abuser

Nivedhan has therapy session with biased and unlicensed counselor and his abuser, Bp Singh. David Singh is an old friend of Bp Singh from India.

Nivedhan joins therapy session organized by David Singh, compromised pastor, and Bp Singh, Nivedhan's abuser

Counseling session with abuser present. Felt more like an intervention. Nivedhan's disclosure to Presiding Bishop Curry and Bishop Singh's seminary friends is assigned to an impulsive outburst due to Nivedhan's "abandoment issues".

Emails confirming time for therapy session

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June 14th 2023
Nivedhan releases first public statement about Bp Singh's abuse

Nivedhan shares same open letter he sent to Presiding Bishop Curry and Bishop Singh's seminary friends on Dec 29, 2022 on Facebook.

Nivedhan releases first public statement about Bishop Singh's abuse

Nivedhan shares same open letter he sent to Presiding Bishop Curry and Bishop Singh's seminary friends on Dec 29, 2022 on Facebook.

Nivedhan's June 14th, 2023 Facebook post

June 14th, 2023 Facebook post

Nivedhan's open letter

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June 14th 2023
Eklan releases first public statement about Bp Singh's abuse

Eklan shares same open letter he sent to Presiding Bishop Curry on Dec 29, 2022 on Facebook.

Eklan releases first public statement about Bishop Singh's abuse

Eklan shares same open letter he sent to Presiding Bishop Curry on Dec 29, 2022 on Facebook.

Eklan's June 14th, 2023 Facebook post

June 14th, 2023 Facebook post

Eklan's open letter

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June 16th 2023
Bp Singh publicly lies about divorce date in TEC public announcement

Bishop Singh uses church platform to dismiss allegations as internal family conflict about his new marriage. In public TEC message, he clearly states "The divorce from two and a half years ago has been a painful transition and this pain has developed further as I moved into a new relationship". "Conduct involving dishonesty, fraud, deceit or misrepresentation" is a violation of TEC's TEC's Canon 4: Of Standards of Conduct, Sec. 1.h.6.

Bishop Singh publicly lies about divorce date in The Episcopal Church public announcement

Bishop Singh uses church platform to dismiss allegations as internal family conflict about his new marriage. In public TEC message, he clearly states "The divorce from two and a half years ago has been a painful transition and this pain has developed further as I moved into a new relationship." We have clear evidence that he was in fact, engaged to be remarried on December 1, 2022; just 6 months after the official divorce. It is impossible to ignore this public, image-managing lie. "Conduct involving dishonesty, fraud, deceit or misrepresentation" is a violation of TEC's TEC's Canon 4: Of Standards of Conduct, Sec. 1.h.6.

The divorce from two and a half years ago has been a painful transition and this pain has developed further as I moved into a new relationship. Bishop Singh
With the support of our Presiding Bishop and the Standing Committees of our dioceses, ... and I became engaged last year. Bishop Singh

Bishop Singh's video announcement

Bishop Singh's public mailing

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June 16th 2023
Nivedhan discloses abuse to Bp Lane. Bp Lane files official complaint with Title IV intake officer within one hour. PB Curry never did this.

Bp Stephen Lane receives the same letter Nivedhan sent to PB Curry on 12/29/22. In less than one hour, Bp. Lane does what PB Curry failed to do for 6 months: he files a formal complaint to the Official Intake Officer for Title IV.

Nivedhan discloses abuse to Bishop Lane. Bishop Lane files official complaint with Title IV intake officer within one hour. Presiding Bishop Curry never did this.

Nivedhan writes an email to Bishop Stephen Lane, Bishop Provisional of The Episcopal Diocese of Rochester (former diocese of Bp Singh), on 06/16/23. Attached to this email was the same letter Nivedhan sent to Presiding Bishop Curry on 12/29/22. Bishop Lane, in keeping with Title IV Canonical law, forwards the complaint to the appropriate Title IV channels. In less than one hour, Bishop Lane does what Presiding Bishop Curry failed to do for 6 months: he files a formal complaint to the Official Intake Officer for Title IV. Presiding Bishop Curry's failure to promptly file a Title IV complaint violates Title IV, Canon 6, Section 3, "Any person other than the Intake Officer who receives information regarding an Offense shall promptly forward the information to the Intake Officer." and Title IV, Canon 4, Section 1, Subsection f, "In exercising his or her ministry, a Member of the Clergy shall...report to the Intake Officer all matters which may constitute an Offense".

The Canons of The Episcopal Church make it clear that a complaint against a bishop must be directed to the Intake Officer for Bishops. I have referred your complaint to the appropriate church officials in the last hour. Bishop Stephan Lane to Nivedhan Singh
The complaint came to me last week, and I deemed that it constituted a complaint of misconduct as defined by the disciplinary canons (Title IV) of The Episcopal Church. As prescribed by those canons, I forwarded the complaint to the Intake Officer for Bishops. Bishop Stephan Lane to Episcopal Diocese of Rochester

Bishop Lane's email to Nivedhan Singh

Bishop Lane's email to Nivedhan Singh

Bishop Lane's announcement to Episcopal Diocese of Rochester

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June 19th 2023
Bp Singh and EDE&WM dismiss public abuse disclosures as "internal family dynamics" in TEC public announcement

Episcopal Dioceses of Eastern & Western Michigan & Bishop Singh respond directly to allegations. Todd Ousley recuses himself as Intake Officer for Title IV around this time.

Bishop Singh and Episcopal Diocese of Eastern & Western Michigan dismiss public abuse disclosures as "internal family dynamics" in The Episcopal Church public announcement

Episcopal Dioceses of Eastern & Western Michigan allow Bishop Singh to respond directly to public allegations. Bishop Singh has physically and emotionally abused his family for 28 years. Bishop Singh dismisses allegations using phrases like, "Divorce is messy and mine was no exception." Bp Singh publicly lies again that the divorce was amicable. The Episcopal Church states that Bishop Singh has launched a Title IV investigation into himself. Other Bishops/clergy have likely already reported to proper Title IV channels. Bishop Singh cites a "therapeutic setting", ignoring David Singh's bias and lack of qualifications. Legitimate therapy requires a licensed, unbiased 3rd party.

Over the past few months, I have invited my sons to dive into these sensitive family matters in a therapeutic setting. Bishop Singh

Bishop Singh and The Episcopal Dioceses of Eastern & Western Michigan's public response

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June 20th 2023
Todd Ousley is replaced as Intake Officer for Title IV

Todd Ousley is replaced as Title IV Intake Officer. Rev. Barb Kempf is appointed as new Intake Officer.

Bishop Todd Ousley is replaced as Intake Officer for Title IV

Bishop Todd Ousley is replaced as Title IV Intake Officer. Rev. Barb Kempf is appointed as new Intake Officer.

July 1st 2023
Bp Singh publicly lies, stating that the allegations against him are untrue

"I continue to maintain that these allegations are untrue but are a sign of deep hurt within my family." -Bishop Singh

Bp Singh publicly lies, stating that the allegations against him are untrue

Bishop Singh has blocked ex-wife and sons on all platforms, email, and phone. So, there is no "we" working through this. We have provided significant evidence that his 28 years of physical and emotional abuse had a real, ife-damaging impact in the lives of Roja, Nivedhan, and Eklan Singh. "Conduct involving dishonesty, fraud, deceit or misrepresentation" is a violation of of TEC's TEC's Canon 4: Of Standards of Conduct, Sec. 1.h.6.

I continue to maintain that these allegations are untrue but are a sign of deep hurt within my family. Bishop Singh

Bishop Singh's July 2nd, 2023 Facebook post

Bishop Singh's July 2nd, 2023 Facebook post
July 17th 2023
EpiscopalAccountability.com launched

After the public messaging from the Episcopal Dioceses of Eastern and Western Michigan on June 16th and 19th, 2023, we decided to expand our accountability efforts.

Sept 8th 2023
Bp Singh resigns amid accusations of domestic abuse

The announcement comes one day after he was placed on leave due to our allegations.

Bishop Singh resigns amid accusations of domestic abuse

Bishop Singh resigns from his post as Provisional Bishop of the Episcopal Dioceses of Eastern and Western Michigan.

Nov 6th 2023
Title IV disciplinary process regarding Prince Singh enters Investigation Stage

Title IV update: Reference Panel convened, no accord reached on Bishop Singh's case. Intake Process has ended and Title IV has officially entered the Investigation stage.

Title IV disciplinary process regarding Prince Singh enters Investigation Stage

In the ongoing Title IV investigation involving Prince Singh, significant progress has been reported. The Episcopal Church's Reference Panel has met on multiple occasions (September 25, October 18, and November 3, 2023) to discuss the complaints specifically concerning the Singhs. Although an attempt was made to reach an accord with the Presiding Bishop-Designate regarding disciplinary actions, an agreement has not been reached at this stage.

Subsequently, on November 3, the matter was officially referred for a comprehensive investigation, as stipulated under Canon IV.6.8 and Canon IV.2. The Presiding Bishop-Designate has taken steps to appoint an Investigator to thoroughly examine the allegations presented by the Singhs. This investigation is being conducted independently of other Title IV complaints related to Bishop Singh’s ministry in the Diocese of Rochester.

The process of investigation is expected to be meticulous and time-consuming. Consequently, the Reference Panel does not anticipate having the Investigator’s final report ready for their next scheduled meeting on November 20, 2023. However, in compliance with Canon IV.6.9, periodic written status reports will be provided to keep the complainants informed of any developments. This approach ensures transparency and continued communication throughout the investigation process.

After careful consideration, on October 18th , the Reference Panel referred the matter for possible agreement with the Presiding Bishop-Designate regarding terms of discipline (an Accord). (Canon IV.6.8 and Canon IV.2) It was not possible to reach an Accord at this time... On November 3, 2023, the Reference Panel referred this Title IV matter for investigation. Rev. Barbara Kempf, Intake Officer

Rev. Barbara Kempf's November 6, 2023 email

Rev. Barbara Kempf's November 6, 2023 email
Dec 28th 2023
Singhs and EA volunteers send request for an independent investigation into OPD to several Bishops in TEC

This letter requests an independent investigation into the Office of the Presiding Bishop and the Office of Pastoral Development of The Episcopal Church, alleging failures by the Most Rev. Michael Curry and the Rt. Rev. Todd Ousley to promptly initiate Title IV proceedings in response to the Singh family's disclosures of abuse by the Rt. Rev. Prince Singh.

The Singhs and Episcopal Accountability volunteers send request for an independent investigation into Office of Pastoral Development to several Bishops in The Episcopal Church

This letter, written by Dr. Jebaroja Singh, Nivedhan Singh, Eklan Singh, and the volunteers of Episcopal Accountability, requests an independent, third-party investigation into the Office of the Presiding Bishop and the Office of Pastoral Development (OPD) of The Episcopal Church. The letter alleges that the Most Rev. Michael Curry, Presiding Bishop, and the Rt. Rev. Todd Ousley, Director of OPD, failed to promptly initiate Title IV proceedings in response to the Singh family's December 2022 disclosures of domestic violence, alcoholism, verbal and emotional abuse, and lying committed by the Rt. Rev. Prince Singh. The letter argues that no bishop or priest of the Episcopal Church is sufficiently free of conflict of interest to carry out an investigation into these offices, necessitating an independent inquiry to achieve the goals of Title IV. The letter provides a detailed account of the Singh family's interactions with church leadership, their disclosures of abuse, and the alleged failures of Bishops Curry and Ousley to adhere to Title IV requirements. The letter concludes by emphasizing the need for an independent investigation to restore trust in the Title IV process and ensure accountability within the church.

Investigation request letter

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Investigation request email

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Jan 10th 2024
Title IV proceedings against Curry and Ousley Commence - Mary Gray Reeves recuses, Bp Hollerith steps in as PB Designate

The Rt. Rev. Mary Gray-Reeves has recused herself from the Title IV disciplinary matter involving allegations against Presiding Bishop Michael B. Curry and Bishop S. Todd Ousley, with the Rt. Rev. Herman Hollerith IV taking over her role in the matter.

Title IV proceedings against Curry and Ousley Commence - Mary Gray Reeves recuses, Bishop Hollerith steps in as Presiding Bishop-Designate

The Rt. Rev. Mary Gray-Reeves, Vice President of the House of Bishops, informs Nivedhan Singh, Eklan Singh, and Jebaroja Singh that she has recused herself from handling the Title IV disciplinary matter involving allegations against Presiding Bishop Michael B. Curry and Bishop S. Todd Ousley due to her current pastoral relationship with Bishop Curry. The Rt. Rev. Herman Hollerith IV will take over her role in this matter. She also mentions that she has shared the Singhs' allegations with other bishops to keep them informed and hopes that the goals of Title IV will be realized in this and every matter.

January 10, 2024 letter from Rt. Rev. Mary Gray-Reeves

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Jan 16th 2024
Intake officer for OPD recuses herself in Title IV case against PB Curry and Bp Ousley

Rev. Barbara Kempf, Intake Officer for Bishops (formerly Bp Todd Ousley's role), has recused herself from the Title IV matter involving allegations against Presiding Bishop Michael B. Curry and Bishop Todd Ousley, due to potential conflict of interest, with the approval of the Rt. Rev. Herman Hollerith IV, who is serving as Presiding Bishop in this matter.

Intake officer for Office of Pastoral Development recuses herself in Title IV case against Presiding Bishop Curry and Bishop Ousley

Rev. Barbara Kempf, the Intake Officer for Bishops in the Office of Pastoral Development of The Episcopal Church, has recused herself from handling the Title IV disciplinary matter involving allegations against Presiding Bishop Michael B. Curry and Bishop Todd Ousley, due to her role in a separate Title IV matter involving the Rt. Rev. Prince Singh and her appointment by the Presiding Bishop. The Rt. Rev. Herman Hollerith IV, serving as Presiding Bishop in this matter, has approved her decision and will appoint a new Intake Officer to serve in her stead.

January 16, 2024 letter from Rev. Barbara Kempf

January 16, 2024 letter from Rev. Barbara Kempf

January 16, 2024 email from Rev. Barbara Kempf

January 16, 2024 email from Rev. Barbara Kempf
Jan 30th 2024
Investigation Interview #1 with Roja, Eklan, Nivedhan - Pan and Mario

First interview with investigators is incredibly triggering for complainants, namely remarks by Pan McCaslin implying that Nivedhan is play-acting.

Investigation Interview #1 with Roja, Eklan, Nivedhan - Pan and Mario

First interview with investigators is incredibly triggering for complainants, namely remarks by Pan McCaslin implying that Nivedhan is play-acting.

January 31, 2024 follow up email from Nivedhan Singh

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Feb 9th 2024
Investigation Interview #2 with Roja, Eklan, Nivedhan - Pan and Mario

Pan and Mario ask specific follow-up questions based on the respondent's interview.

Feb 22nd 2024
PB Curry shares Title IV transparency update with entire Episcopal Church

The Episcopal Church announces new measures to increase transparency in disciplinary matters involving bishops. These measures include creating easily accessible paths on the church's website for reporting misconduct, viewing the status of current disciplinary matters involving bishops, and publishing an annual statistical report on complaints against bishops and their outcomes.

Presiding Bishop Curry shares Title IV transparency update with entire Episcopal Church

The Episcopal Church announces new measures to increase transparency in disciplinary matters involving bishops. These measures include creating easily accessible paths on the church's website for reporting misconduct, viewing the status of current disciplinary matters involving bishops, and publishing an annual statistical report on complaints against bishops and their outcomes. Presiding Bishop Michael Curry has decided to make information public in these matters when he deems it pastorally appropriate. The goal is to strike a balance between transparency and privacy, aiming for healing, repentance, forgiveness, restitution, justice, amendment of life, and reconciliation among all involved or affected. The procedural progress of Title IV matters involving bishops will be disclosed in certain public situations, such as when a bishop's ministry is restricted or they are placed on administrative leave. Information on current and past cases, as well as resources to understand the Title IV process, are now available on the church's website.

February 22, 2024 letter from Presiding Bishop Curry

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July 11th 2024
Conference Panel shared proposed deposition order regarding The Rt. Rev. Prince G. Singh

The Conference Panel's findings detail clear and convincing evidence of physical abuse, chronic alcohol misuse, and public deception by Bishop Singh. The panel recommended deposition from ministry, citing Singh’s denial of wrongdoing and lack of contrition. This document underscores the gravity of Singh's misconduct and highlights systemic failures in addressing the case with transparency and accountability.

Conference Panel shared proposed deposition order regarding The Rt. Rev. Prince G. Singh

In June 2024, the Conference Panel convened in Newark, New Jersey, where five bishops presided over a two-day process involving testimony from the Singhs, their supporters, and Bishop Prince Singh. The panel found "clear and convincing evidence" of multiple violations by Bishop Singh, including persistent physical violence against his sons, chronic alcohol abuse, and deceptive conduct involving Church officials. Despite Singh’s denials and refusal to acknowledge his behavior, the panel unanimously concluded that his actions were unbecoming of a clergyman and recommended his deposition from ordained ministry. The Conference Panel underscored that Singh’s denial of the allegations and failure to demonstrate repentance or amendment of life made reconciliation impossible.

The Conference Panel’s conclusion was unequivocal: Singh’s continued exercise of ordained ministry was untenable, and deposition was the only suitable action to uphold the integrity of the Episcopal Church.

The Conference Panel finds that there is clear and convincing evidence, attested to by each of the Complainants, that the Respondent engaged in persistent and ongoing physical violence directed against each of his sons... for minor and seemingly random infractions such as asking for a stuffed Tigger. The Rt. Rev. Michael B. Hunn, President, Conference Panel of the Disciplinary Board for Bishops
The Respondent has used and abused alcohol in ways that are chronic, often daily... The testimony also described at least one occasion when the Respondent offered to serve alcohol to a group of underaged minors in his home. The Rt. Rev. Michael B. Hunn, President, Conference Panel of the Disciplinary Board for Bishops
The Respondent knowingly engaged in deception by stating that he had the approval and support of the Presiding Bishop for his new relationship and his divorce, when in reality he had hidden the true nature of the divorce from the Presiding Bishop. The Rt. Rev. Michael B. Hunn, President, Conference Panel of the Disciplinary Board for Bishops
The Conference Panel... is now convinced, by clear and convincing evidence, that Respondent cannot be allowed to continue the exercise of ordained ministry under these circumstances... deposition from ministry to be the appropriate action for the good of the Church. The Rt. Rev. Michael B. Hunn, President, Conference Panel of the Disciplinary Board for Bishops

July 11th, 2024 Conference Panel decision

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Sept 21st 2024
Bishop Hunn updates on Hearing Panel formation

Bishop Hunn clarifies that the case, following a conference panel's inability to resolve the matter, has been referred to a hearing panel. He notes that delays are due to the elections of new Discipline Board members at the recent General Convention and their upcoming training. He affirms that the hearing panel will be constituted soon and assures the complainants they will hear from the chair of the hearing panel once formed.

Bishop Hunn updates on Hearing Panel formation

In September 2024, Bishop Michael Hunn provided an update on the progress of the Title IV process, clarifying the next steps following the Conference Panel’s findings. He acknowledged that the case had been referred to a Hearing Panel for adjudication. However, due to delays caused by General Convention elections and training for the newly constituted Disciplinary Board for Bishops, the Hearing Panel had not yet been formalized. Bishop Hunn assured the complainants that they would hear from the chair of the Hearing Panel once it was established. While intended to be reassuring, the update highlighted the slow pace and procedural hurdles that have characterized this case, adding to the complainants' frustrations and feelings of uncertainty.

September 21, 2024 email from Bishop Hunn

September 21, 2024 email from Bishop Hunn
Oct 31st 2024
Presiding Bishop-Elect Sean Rowe asserts control over Title IV proceedings

The Rt. Rev. Sean Rowe, Presiding Bishop-Elect, announced he will fully assume responsibility for all Title IV matters involving Bishops starting November 1, 2024. This decision ends the roles of Title IV Designates previously appointed due to conflicts involving Bishop Curry and Bishop Ousley. Rev. Barbara Kempf will serve as the new Intake Officer, ensuring centralized oversight moving forward.

Presiding Bishop-Elect Sean Rowe asserts control over Title IV proceedings

On October 31, 2024, the Rt. Rev. Sean Rowe, then Presiding Bishop-Elect, announced his intention to assume full authority over all Title IV matters involving bishops once he officially began his role on November 1. This decision marked a pivotal moment, as Rowe declared that he would handle ongoing disciplinary matters, including those previously overseen by Presiding Bishops-Designate and Intake Officers-Designate. While this letter ostensibly aimed to centralize authority and ensure continuity, it raised concerns about impartiality and the potential for overreach.

I plan to fulfill the Presiding Bishop’s role in all Title IV matters currently pending against Bishops. Presiding Bishop-Elect Rowe
None of the reasons for recusal will remain after November 1. Once I occupy the Office of Presiding Bishop, I will be in a position to carry out fully that Office’s responsibility in Title IV matters. Presiding Bishop-Elect Rowe

October 31, 2024 letter from Presiding Bishop-Elect Rowe

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Nov 23rd 2024
PB Rowe shares first draft of Accord with Complainants in both Title IV cases

This intial draft Accord proposes a two-year suspension for Bishop Prince Singh while he engages in reconciliation and psychological work, despite his denial of all allegations. It ignores the deposition proposal of the Conference Panel.

Presiding Bishop Rowe shares first draft of Accord with Complainants in both Title IV cases

The draft Accord, released on November 22, 2024, proposed a two-year suspension for Bishop Singh without deposition, contingent on his "amendment of life." The document emphasized reconciliation with complainants, including Singh’s ex-wife, children, and former colleagues, but notably stated that Singh denied all allegations. This denial creates a fundamental contradiction: reconciliation and rehabilitation require acknowledgment of wrongdoing and contrition, neither of which Singh has shown.

The draft also assigns significant discretion to the Presiding Bishop to oversee Singh's rehabilitation and determine his readiness to return to ministry. However, this approach raised concerns from complainants about the lack of safeguards, given Singh’s history of manipulation and the Church’s previous failures in selecting qualified investigators and clinicians. Furthermore, the draft failed to separate Singh’s family abuse allegations from diocesan misconduct allegations, despite the complainants’ explicit requests.

Key Issues Highlighted:

  • Contradiction Between Denial and Reconciliation: Singh’s denial of allegations directly undermines the reconciliation process outlined in the draft Accord.
  • Oversight Concerns: The Presiding Bishop is granted unilateral authority to determine Singh's fitness for ministry, with no clear external checks or expertise.
  • Failure to Separate Cases: The draft conflates two separate Title IV cases (family abuse and diocesan misconduct), diluting the gravity of each set of allegations.
  • Insufficient Response to Manipulation Risks: Singh’s documented history of manipulation was not adequately addressed with robust safeguards.
This Accord arises out of two sets of allegations… The allegations may, if proven by clear and convincing evidence, constitute breaches of the Standards of Conduct under [multiple Canons]. Presiding Bishop Rowe
Although Bishop Singh does not admit and disputes the allegations… he voluntarily agrees to the terms set forth more fully below. Presiding Bishop Rowe
During the period of suspension, Bishop Singh shall collaborate with the Presiding Bishop to identify appropriate work that will lead to amendment of life. Presiding Bishop Rowe

November 22, 2024 proposed Accord from Presiding Bishop Rowe

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Dec 5th 2024
Response to the proposed first draft Accord

Following the release of the draft Accord on November 22, 2024, the complainants issued a formal response rejecting its terms. They criticized the Accord for failing to address key requests, including separating the two Title IV cases and providing transparent safeguards. The response highlighted contradictions, such as focusing on reconciliation while Bishop Singh denies all allegations, and emphasized the lack of accountability. The complainants urged for the case to proceed to a Hearing Panel, arguing the Accord undermines justice and the integrity of the Title IV process.

Response to the proposed first draft Accord

In their response to the November draft of the Accord, the complainants formally rejected the proposed terms, emphasizing their failure to reflect the findings of the Conference Panel, which had recommended Bishop Singh’s deposition. The complainants outlined significant issues with the Accord, including its recharacterization of proven abuse as mere allegations, the lack of meaningful accountability measures, and its prioritization of Singh's rehabilitation over the safety and well-being of his victims. The response highlighted the manipulation evident in the Title IV process and stressed the inherent contradiction in promoting reconciliation without acknowledgment of harm. They also questioned the decision to combine two separate cases into one Accord, which diminished the gravity of each complaint and erased the unique harm experienced by the victims.

Singh’s ability to manipulate his superiors remains our central concern... Now, this draft Accord reflects our worst fear: that without a critical eye and a close examination of evidence, Singh would again be able to hijack the process while appearing a sincere, sympathetic, and even trustworthy figure. Roja, Nivedhan, and Eklan Singh
Your decision to single-handedly combine two distinct Title IV cases into one Accord rejects everything we have done to outline why Singh’s actions directly against us, as survivors, were so grave... It erases our experience as survivors. It erases us. Roja, Nivedhan, and Eklan Singh
This draft Accord, in its current form, rejects that assertion and is entirely unacceptable to us. If you finalize this Accord it will force us to abandon our hopes in Title IV and to seek justice through more public and legal means. Roja, Nivedhan, and Eklan Singh

December 5, 2024 letter from Roja, Nivedhan, and Eklan Singh

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Dec 6th 2024
PB Sean Rowe holds Zoom meeting with Nivedhan, Jebaroja and Eklan Singh

Sean Rowe admits he did not read the Conference Panel proposed order of deposition before drafting the first Accord.

Presiding Bishop Sean Rowe holds Zoom meeting with Nivedhan, Jebaroja and Eklan Singh

The Presiding Bishop bypassed the Hearing Panel stage by drafting an Accord without fully considering the Conference Panel’s findings, which recommended deposition for Singh. While this alligns with Title IV process standards, it is unethical. The complainants had believed the Title IV process would conclude with a fair and transparent adjudication. This unexpected bypass undermines confidence in the Episcopal Church’s disciplinary system and raises questions about the integrity of the process.

Correct, I did not review the Conference Panel deposition order before drafting the Accord. Presiding Bishop Rowe
Dec 10th 2024
Singh family sends reponse to PB Rowe in followup of Dec 6th Zoom meeting

Complainants responds to the December 6th meeting with Presiding Bishop Rowe, critiquing the proposed Accord for prioritizing Singh’s rehabilitation over accountability. The complainants stress Singh’s unfitness for ministry, challenge the Church’s reliance on the Presiding Bishop’s judgment, and criticize the conflation of two separate Title IV cases. They reiterate the need for Singh’s deposition and reject reconciliation without accountability.

Singh family sends reponse to Presiding Bishop Rowe in followup of December 6th Zoom meeting

This letter, written after a December 6, 2024 meeting with Presiding Bishop Rowe, critiques the proposed Accord’s failure to ensure justice and accountability in the case of Bishop Prince Singh. While acknowledging Rowe’s admission that issuing the initial draft without reviewing the Conference Panel’s findings was a mistake, the letter underscores key concerns, including the Church’s lack of expertise in handling narcissistic behaviors, its failure to involve qualified clinicians, and its prioritization of Singh’s rehabilitation over safeguarding the Church community. The authors call for deposition as the only fitting resolution, pointing out that reconciliation and reinstatement are incompatible with Singh’s denial of all wrongdoing. They argue that the Accord, which centers on Singh’s rehabilitation, sends a damaging message about the Church’s tolerance for abusive behavior and its systemic neglect of survivors. The letter reiterates calls for separating the two Title IV cases, ensuring expert clinical evaluations, and emphasizing accountability over institutional preservation.

The current proposal grants you (Rowe) unilateral authority to decide whether Singh is fit to return to ministry… without proper clinical assessment by a qualified specialist, there is no basis for assessing progress. Roja, Nivedhan, and Eklan Singh
Singh’s behavior has been marked by manipulation, deceit, and abuse of authority… Placing Singh in any position where he has influence—even as a parish priest or administrator—would expose others to harm. Roja, Nivedhan, and Eklan Singh
The Church appears willing to allocate significant resources to supervise Singh’s ‘reformation journey,’ yet those same resources were unavailable for a proper investigation or the engagement of qualified clinicians. Roja, Nivedhan, and Eklan Singh
We cannot imagine a reconciliation with Singh under conditions where he is allowed to keep his title and status, because for him… that will always signal that his abusive actions were, in some way, footnotes to his calling in the Church rather than straightforward disqualifiers for ministry. Roja, Nivedhan, and Eklan Singh

December 10, 2024 letter from Roja, Nivedhan, and Eklan Singh

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Dec 10th 2024
Amendment of Life plan draft is shared with Complainants

Following the December 6th meeting, the Presiding Bishop provided revised language for the "Amendment of Life" section in response to feedback from complainants. However, the revisions failed to address key concerns about the process's lack of trauma-informed measures, the omission of separate proceedings for different Title IV cases, and reliance on Singh's collaboration in the process.

Amendment of Life plan draft is shared with Complainants

In response to concerns raised during a December 6, 2024, meeting with Presiding Bishop Rowe, complainants received a draft outlining detailed steps for Bishop Singh’s "amendment of life" during his suspension. While the document listed measures such as psychological evaluations and truth-telling sessions, it failed to address repeated requests for separation of the two Title IV cases or include provisions to ensure accountability in oversight. The proposal continued to place Bishop Singh as a "collaborator" in his rehabilitation, despite his denial of all allegations—a glaring contradiction. This approach highlighted systemic failures, as complainants questioned whether resources could be effectively used in Singh’s rehabilitation, given his documented history of manipulation.

During the period of Suspension, Bishop Singh shall collaborate with the Presiding Bishop to identify appropriate work that will lead to amendment of life. Presiding Bishop Rowe
Participation in truth-telling work to include sessions where each allegation is described directly to Bishop Singh... by a Complainant at their choosing or some other person with knowledge. Presiding Bishop Rowe
A thorough psychiatric and psychological assessment conducted by a professional in the United States designated by the Presiding Bishop. Presiding Bishop Rowe

December 10, 2024 "Amendment of Life" email

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Dec 12th 2024
Nivedhan shares Amendment of Life Response with Barb K and Mary K

Response to Amendment of Life Plan: The Singhs question Bishop Singh's capacity for change, citing past failures, suspected NPD, and concerns over manipulation. They call for independent evaluations and argue deposition is the only path to accountability and justice.

Nivedhan shares Amendment of Life Response with Barb K and Mary K

The complainants emphasize significant concerns about the feasibility and appropriateness of the plan, pointing out Singh's history of manipulation and potential undiagnosed Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD), which is esistant to treatment. They argue the Church’s past failures, such as allowing unlicensed individuals like David Singh to oversee counseling, demonstrate a lack of judgment and expertise in handling Singh's behaviors. The letter also questions the allocation of substantial resources to Singh’s rehabilitation and recommends redirecting funds to initiatives supporting survivors and systemic reform. The complainants stress that deposition remains the only appropriate course of action, as it prioritizes accountability and sends a clear message that manipulation and abuse are incompatible with ministry.

The respondent’s behavior throughout this process—and over decades—raises strong suspicions of Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD). Without a proper evaluation by a clinician with expertise in assessing NPD, any amendment of life plan risks being fundamentally misguided. Roja, Nivedhan, and Eklan Singh
Based on our experiences...rehabilitation may simply not be possible. Roja, Nivedhan, and Eklan Singh
The proposed plan would require significant financial resources and administrative oversight. These resources could be better spent on initiatives that address systemic issues, such as...supporting organizations that provide services to survivors of domestic and church abuse. Roja, Nivedhan, and Eklan Singh

December 12, 2024 letter from Roja, Nivedhan, and Eklan Singh

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Dec 12th 2024
PB Sean Rowe Issues final Accord in Singh Title IV Case - 3 Year Suspension with Amdenment of Life requirements

The finalized Accord reveals a glaring contradiction. Bishop Singh denies all allegations against him, yet the Accord mandates reconciliation efforts with his victims. Reconciliation inherently requires an admission of wrongdoing and genuine contrition—neither of which are possible under Singh’s continued denial. This oxymoronic plan undermines the integrity of the process and raises critical questions: How can meaningful rehabilitation or reconciliation occur without accountability? The Church’s approach signals a dangerous precedent, suggesting that restoration to ministry is possible even without acknowledgment of harm caused.

Presiding Bishop Sean Rowe Issues final Accord in Singh Title IV Case - 3 Year Suspension with Amdenment of Life requirements

The finalized Accord explicitly states that Bishop Prince Singh denies all allegations of misconduct. Yet, it includes provisions for "reconciliation" with his victims, including direct engagement with complainants at their discretion. This is a contradiction: reconciliation requires acknowledgment of wrongdoing and contrition, both of which are incompatible with Singh's blanket denial. This misalignment undermines the purpose of reconciliation as a process predicated on accountability and healing.

While the Presiding Bishop claims to have "heard from complainants," only two significant changes were made to the final Accord: an extension of suspension from two years to three and a clause allowing potential conversion to deposition if Singh fails to demonstrate amendment of life. Requests to separate the two Title IV cases and ensure independent assessments were ignored, leaving complainants feeling sidelined.

Bishop Singh does not admit and disputes the allegations and charges referenced above in both sets of allegations Accord, Section 4
During the period of suspension, Bishop Singh shall participate in reconciliation work addressing his relationships with his ex-wife and sons, as prescribed by the Presiding Bishop in consultation with his ex-wife and sons, and only upon their interest and consent Accord, Section 12c

December 12, 2024 Accord

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